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Crochet: It's a Guy Thing Too!

by Gwen Blakley Kinsler

What does a teenage boy in Aspen, Colo., have in common with a health-care provider/art instructor in Chicago or with a philosophy instructor in Philadelphia? They are of the male gender and they enjoy exploring the intricacies of crochet! Crochet is definitely not just for the ladies anymore.


I found other “threads” of commonality as I talked to each of these unique individuals. Women in their lives gave them exposure to crochet, but they all had to overcome resistance to men being taught the craft. They pursued it on their own and are self-taught. Today as a big part of their lives, crochet is seen by all of them as rhythmic, comforting and as art. Crochet is a metaphor for many pleasing things in their lives and they find the process to be as important as the product and use it to express emotions and ideas. Read on to learn more about these intriguing men crocheters.

Pate Conaway of Chicago, Ill.: Artist, Teacher, Health-Care Provider
Pate working on one of his many unique crocheted sculptures.I first encountered Pate (pronounced “Patty”) doing performance knitting in the lobby of a hotel! Yes, he also crochets and as an artist, he uses alternative materials like cotton welting, traditionally used for drape cord. Says Pate, “I have crocheted with phone cording, electrical extension cords, string, tinfoil, tinsel, cloth; anything I can get my hand on! I’m still looking for that perfect fiber!

 

Two woven vessels Pate crocheted from strips of rubberI love the freedom of crochet, especially when I do it just with my fingers,” he explains. “I create sculptures that encase; these basketlike forms are metaphors for community. My ‘community’ encourages me, reminds me of my truth, loves me for who I am and wants me to succeed.”

Recently as an artist-in-residence at the Chicago Museum of Contemporary Art, Pate’s role was to create a body of work, to be transparent. He says, “The students witnessed a live artist working and I wanted them to know that not everything has to be a masterpiece.”

Another woven vessel Pate crocheted with polyurethane rope.

A clinical audiologist, as well as an art instructor, Pate remembers his grandmother, affectionately known as Peaches. “She was very creative,” he remembers, “and I watched her crochet as a child. At the time, it was not socially acceptable to teach a boy crochet. She was an artist but we didn’t call her that. Crochet was her language of expression. It is healing for me to be learning and expressing the language my grandmother couldn’t teach me. It is a great way to honor her.”
 

 

Chris Givler of Dillsburg, Pa.: Professor, Community College
An adjunct instructor in a community college, with a wife and two teenage boys, Chris defies the stereotype of “crocheter.” Self-taught from a book, his mother taught his two sisters when he was young, but left him out. He explains, “At the time, culturally speaking, people didn’t think boys wanted to learn crochet.” Chris has only known how to crochet a short time but he has already completed 25 projects!


A mosaic-style blanket Chris made for his wife and a teddy bear made in a double-ended hook technique.

“It is a miracle,” exclaims Chris as he contemplates. “With two incredibly simple things, a skein of yarn and a hook, I can produce a hat, blanket or mittens. The kinesthetic experience of diverse fibers gliding through my fingers is very attractive to me. It’s like a dance as I use both hands working together to hold the hook, push the yarn around and pull it through!”

Chris teaches New Testament Literature, and Liberal Arts and the Christian’s Mind. In these freshman classes, he aims to give his students the skills they need for lifelong learning. Chris believes, “We live in an over-mechanized, dehumanized society in which the humanness of an ordinary person engaged in a craft is seen as unimportant. God is creative. I am a human made in his image and I have the ability to create; thus, I am participating in God’s creativity.”

Chris Givler's son, Kyle, with a blanket he made for him.

Chris observes, “College students are crocheting and I do my part to keep up the excitement by wearing the scarf I have made to class.” This devout and intuitive man believes in celebrating crochet and has researched other peoples’ stories that strengthen his resolve. He heard about a home for troubled boys where the crochet skills they learn help them find calm, patience and control of their anger. He explains, “Lost in the rhythms due to repetitive movements of their crochet, their subconscious is brought forward, in a meditative and contemplative way, to work on their problems and they don’t even realize it.”  Chris has touched lives with his crochet and he would like to include other’s experiences in a book he is writing. If you have a crochet story, you can e-mail him at bright_evening_star_6119@adelphia.net.
 

Jeffrey Michael Grauel: Artist
Growing up in a family that did crafts projects, Jeffrey’s mother and grandmother hesitated to teach him to crochet as they feared he would “get into” the yarn. They preferred, instead, to send him off to play with father’s woodworking tools. He vividly remembers his mother turning to her crochet when she needed a break from her day-to-day work. He struggled to learn on his own and finally they agreed to teach him crochet. “My mother and grandmother told me the story of World War II pilots who used crochet to keep their nerves calm and they insisted that I retell the story to anyone who saw me crocheting,” Jeffrey remembers.

His family was not accustomed to going to museums to see art, so Jeffrey was not exposed to art until he went to college. He earned a Bachelor of Fine Arts in sculpture nevertheless! He was encouraged to attend graduate school, but prior to this time, Jeffrey did lots of installation pieces about the environment. He used his grandfather’s tools and other found objects to create sculptures.

Acceptance into the School of the Art Institute of Chicago’s Masters of Fine Arts program brought him to Chicago and it was a bit of culture shock. “Being from California, the common use of public transportation was so different for me and it was the start of a ‘Big Adventure’! My professors told me I should be making art, but nothing was clicking. Often, I found myself sitting in the corner and crocheting. I was making a huge doily, which was worked so tightly that it finally turned into a ball.”

Jeffery realized that part of his discomfort and creative block was from missing his home and family. His solution was to involve his family in his art and he asked them to trace their shadows for him! These shadows were the inspiration for the larger “floor plan work.” Jeffrey involved his draftsman father by cleverly using his house plans as patterns to crochet a huge metaphor for “home.” He also enlisted the help of his mother to search for the vast amounts of black acrylic yarn needed; and as he crocheted and when the packages of yarn arrived, he thought of home. Jeffrey explains how he carried his large project everywhere he went: “I took it to class, on the elevated train and to jury duty. I had some amazing interactions and people would often say, ‘my grandmother did that.’” A homeless man on the El was watching Jeffrey’s hands fly and moved to sit next to him. “Surprisingly,” Jeffrey says, “before I knew it, I was teaching him to crochet with many around us watching in amazement. At first I felt weird crocheting in public, but I guess crochet is familiar enough to many that they feel it is okay for them to talk to a crocheter. We spend so much time defining how different we are that we forget how alike we are. We really do want to connect and bond.”

Pup tent Jeffrey crocheted with plastic bags.Still conscious of things around him, Jeffrey created a six-foot pup tent fabricated from 1000 granny squares made of plastic bags. Named, “Thank you,” the work of art honors relationships within his family. Since graduating, Jeffrey has found that in balancing his work and his art, “there is a lot of overlap between the repetitive things I do at work and the repetitive process of crochet. One informs the other. Rhythm and repetitiveness is embedded in crochet as in the yarn, the process and the comfort from doing it.
 

Kyle Pfab, Basalt, Colo.: High-School Student
Kyle Pfab shows off this sporty set he crocheted.Although he only learned to crochet about three years ago, Kyle is almost famous now! His grandmother taught him how, but the culture in the Roaring Fork Valley where he lives makes crochet big in his high school. Kyle explains, “We crochet a lot of snowboarding-type hats and it is mostly boys who crochet. It is cool to have and to make hats and they sell for a lot of money in the winter at the ski shops.”

Kyle and his friend Adam were featured in the Aspen times after they made their smashing debut wearing crocheted tuxedos at the prom! Kyle has moved forward by leaps and bounds with his crochet since then and he explains how the idea evolved. “I enjoy the creativity of doing the crochet work. I don’t need a pattern to make something. We had made a bunch of hats around prom time; we were thinking about what would be the next step and the idea of making tuxes jumped out at us! We thought, ‘why not?’ and began to discuss how to make the jackets, from the bottom up or working from the middle around? We agreed, ‘let’s just do it’ and each of us worked on our own tuxedos. We would hang out to crochet, brainstorm and compare notes on the process. We figured out the best strategies together. I am a mathematical person; I count and re-count!”

Kyle's crochet skills lend themselves to a variety of great-looking projects.

Kyle explains his interest in crochet: “It relaxes me but allows my creativity to take control. Patterns jump out of my thoughts. I like to make things that I see around me even if it seems like they shouldn’t be made in crochet, like a pair of flip-flop sandals. I would also like to carve a hook out of wood, if I have time. I ski, bike, go kayaking and play soccer; playing the guitar competes with my crochet time!”

 

Gil Rosenberg, Dryden, N.Y.: High-School Teacher
Unlike the other men, Gil was a quilter before he was a crocheter. Gil’s mom, Barbara, who lives in Ohio, misses him dearly and annually she tries out creative ways to unite with her son for some mother/son bonding. This year she invited him to join her at the Crochet Guild of America annual conference. The only problem for Gil was that he had to learn to crochet first! Taught by his grandmother to knit 11/2 years ago, Gil caught on to the crochet just days before the conference by picking up a couple of crochet books in a local yarn shop. His mother signed them up for a full schedule of classes together and Gil kept up the pace and was amazed by all he learned. He hasn’t had time to finish a project yet; he says he enjoys the “planning” phase of crochet almost more than the actual “doing” phase because it is relaxing. Currently his project is a blanket made up of 56 squares; for him, it is a great learning tool. He says it is the color aspects in both quilting and crochet that he enjoys the most. He adds, “With crochet there is the added bonus of texture that is not prevalent in quilting.”

Gil likes the fact that crochet is mathematical and he plans on incorporating it into the math classes he teaches. He explains, “My students are already sufficiently astounded by my quilting; I haven’t told them about the crochet yet!” Gil says he got used to being in the minority with his quilting and this doesn’t bother him as much as all the attention he gets as a man who crochets. “Everyone gets excited to have a guy crocheter around and they want to know how I got started. I would prefer, especially as a beginner, to just blend in.”

These men are setting the standard for the next wave of avenues for self-expression. They may be the minority in the world of crochet, but the satisfaction from their crochet is the commonality they share with each other and with every one of us who crochets every day!

As this article evolved more and more men surfaced. The Male Crochet Club in Altoona, Wis. crochets on Monday nights instead of watching football! (MSNBC, 9/13/04). Mathematicians at Bristol University in the UK have made a crochet model of chaos! The equations describe the nature of chaotic systems, such as the weather or a turbulent river (BBCNews, 12/21/04). To interchange ideas with other men who crochet go to
menwhocrochet@yahoogroups.com.

 

This article is dedicated to Bill Elmore, the pioneer of men who crochet. Author, teacher and passionate crocheter, Bill wrote The Elmore Method and More Elmore, after careers in the army and as a hospital administrator. Bill passed away at the age of 90 on Feb. 24, 2005. A strong advocate of crochet, he dedicated the last two decades of his life to improving the foundations, stitches and perceptions of crochet. His crochet enthusiasm and caring spirit will be missed by all crocheters who had the privilege of meeting him or learning from him through his books. ••

 

 

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